Money Matters

One of the ways control can be gained is with money by controlling how much you spend or by taking your money away from you. Even those who do earn their own income can be controlled by criticism about what they do buy. This is often done with clothes that make you look good, when people are insecure they sometimes criticise when you look good because they are scared that you may find someone else and leave.

Looking after yourself is important and keeping your own sense of independence. If this is done with care towards your partner your relationship need not end if that’s what you want.